Hurry Up and Wait!

Published on May 26, 2016

One of the most frustrating parts about selling the house has been the buyers' realtor, who appears to be either lazy, disorganized, clueless about her job, just plain unprofessional, or a combination of all of the above. After the initial contract, the inspections occurred quickly but we then had almost two weeks of no communication. Our realtor kept trying to keep things moving but the other realtor was "too busy" one day, "tired" another day, and "boating" on yet another day. Finally, the final deal came together. That was a week and a half ago...…

Packing, Sorting, Tossing, and NO MORE BUYING!!!

Published on May 21, 2016

We are knee deep in cardboard boxes here. It's not pretty! But, we're making lots of progress! We started the pre-move activities about a month ago. I decided to make it easy - start on one side of the house (the master bathroom), and work my way across the house. That's a trick I learned from a housekeeper years ago. Start in one corner, and just start moving around the room. Don't bounce from one place to another. Just. Move. Forward. …

We’re Moving to St. Pete! – Part II

Published on May 13, 2016

Last week, I shared the news that we're selling our house, and moving to St. Pete, along with some of the reasons why. I added, "There's another big reason we're moving but I'll wait until next week to tell you that." Here it is...…

We’re Moving to St. Pete! – Part I

Published on May 6, 2016

I haven't yet written about this because we didn't know when it was going to happen but...now, it's happening!…

Positive And, Unfortunately, Negative Thoughts On My Very First Cruise…

Published on April 29, 2016

Last weekend, the girls and I drove down to Miami, hopped on Majesty of the Seas, and headed for the Bahamas. This was my first cruise. I don't like touristy things when traveling and I don't like being stuck in one place with limited options on what I can do. A friend told me I wouldn't mind being "stuck" on a boat that size because it's a floating city...…

Bachelorette Party Weekend!

Published on April 22, 2016

At o'dark thirty in the morning, Ali and I are hitting the road, heading to Miami, where we will jump on a cruise ship with our future daughter-in-law, her friends, and her mother. We'll then spent 4 days and 3 nights humming tropical songs, drinking tropical drinks, and seeing tropical sights. We will NOT be zip-lining (boring), nor parasailing (been there, done that), but we are interested in trying a unique restaurant or two on the islands, or doing some shopping. …

Camping For Boys = Quiet Writing Time For Me!

Published on April 15, 2016

Richard and the boys are going camping this weekend while I get to stay home with Coco. I am so excited! Imagine how much writing I'm going to get done from Friday night through Sunday night! My fingers just might fall off from fatigue!…

When Your Child Gets Caught in an Ocean Current…

Published on April 8, 2016

After our walk, the boys wanted to go back to the boat. Brian offered to swim back with them while I stayed with the dinghy. They all had on life jackets (because we frequently see stories about drownings in currents in Florida, even among good swimmers). Brian and Max were doing fine but Mason is very small, and was having a hard time fighting the current...…

Sailing Trip!

Published on April 1, 2016

Next week, we are taking a 3-day, 2-night sailing trip with a friend of ours. Max and Mason are extremely excited! I'm a bit nervous...…

Smallest Easter Ever!

Published on March 25, 2016

We don't have an empty nest but it's emptier than it used to be...…

In-laws Are In Town!

Published on March 17, 2016

I drove to the airport this morning to pick up my step-mom-in-law while Richard took the boys to their museum class for shark and fish dissection. Yea! Richard's dad is arriving by vehicle this evening and more friends are arriving in two days. …

Home Alone! (Well, Almost…)

Published on March 10, 2016

This weekend, Richard, along with a friend of ours, is taking a two-day wilderness survival course. The guys invited me but I gracefully bowed out...…

House Shopping With The Newlyweds

Published on March 3, 2016

Our daughter, Ali, and her new hubby, Justin, have been house shopping ever since returning from their honeymoon in November. This week, they asked me to meet them at a house they kept returning to after looking at so many others. So, I agreed to do that on Monday and it was so much fun! I was the first one there. I walked around, taking pictures to help them in their negotiations. By the side of the house, a very large black snake gave me a startling greeting. He was more afraid of me than I was of him so he started racing away. I chased him, trying to get a picture. So, when Ali and Justin pulled up, they found me running along the side of the house...…

Open-Window and Kayaking Weather!

Published on February 25, 2016

On Tuesday morning, we woke up to a very breezy, warm day. Well, warm as in the mid-70's. It was so gorgeous that we opened all the windows and sliding glass doors.…

Homeschooling Shenanigans

Published on February 18, 2016

As most of you know, we homeschool our two youngest children. The other ones are adults now. Each Monday, Max (age 14) and Mason (age 9) are given their lessons for the week. They have colorful folders for each day of the week, and a large folder to keep those in, as well as workbooks, reading books, and supplies. It works out pretty well...most of the time. …

False Advertising in Florida Commercials?!

Published on February 11, 2016

Is it warm? Well, occasionally, but that seems to be a fluke in February...…

When Your Kid is a Pre-Med Student, You Never Know What They’ll Bring Home…

Published on February 4, 2016

Last night, I walked into Frank's room and he showed me his latest homework project. He had four small, plastic cylinders with labels. They each just had a small piece of foam on top, pushed into each container. They didn't look very secure, to me at least. And, inside were about a zillion fruit flies. …

Our Calendar…That Hangs by the Toilet

Published on January 28, 2016

I was hoping things would slow down in January but they haven't. Usually, after the holidays, Richard and I try to have a month of down-time. However, this year that didn't happen. Looking at our calendar for January, I noticed yesterday why I've felt so frazzled. There's hardly any white space left!…

More Homeowner Headaches… Will It Ever End?!

Published on January 21, 2016

First, we got the bad news about the seawall possibly needing to be replaced (with quotes running $19K - $42K now). Now, we have termites!…

Help! Anybody Know Anything About Seawalls?

Published on January 14, 2016

So, my question is, do any of you know anything about seawalls? We've never had one before and we are reeling from sticker shock. …

I’m Going to Be a Mother-in-Law Again!

Published on January 7, 2016

On Christmas Day, in our living room, our oldest son, Zach, proposed to the love of his life, Mary, who we all adore. …

Venturing Out on New Year’s Eve…for the First Time in 17 Years!

Published on December 31, 2015

My first marriage was a very unhappy one. It lasted for a dozen years and, for obvious reasons, New Year's Eve held very bad memories for me...…

ALERT!!! ONLY 4 WEEKS UNTIL THE WINTER, 2016 24-HOUR SHORT STORY CONTEST!

Published on December 23, 2015

The Winter, 2016 24-Hour Short Story Contest is only four weeks away! Space is limited to 500 entrants so sign up early! …

Matt’s Almost Here!

Published on December 17, 2015

Our son, Matt, who lives in Boston, is arriving on Friday, and will be here for about two weeks. We are SUPER excited about his arrival and we have lots of fun things planned for him while he's here! …

Trying To Decide On This Year’s Christmas Cookies…

Published on December 9, 2015

Each year, Ali and I make goodies to take to the neighbors. The rum balls I make, which are a recipe I received from a fellow BookLocker author, are always a huge hit. I'm burned out on peppermint bark and tiny pretzels swimming in caramel and chocolate. …

Things Are Finally Calming Down!

Published on December 4, 2015

While the business is still in pre-Christmas-hysteria mode, things on the home front are calming down. …

Wedding Pics!

Published on November 27, 2015

We are still trying to get caught up from our trip so, as promised, I'm posting wedding pictures today.…

Our Daughter’s Beautiful Wedding!

Published on November 18, 2015

We have been on the road for two weeks and, for the past several days, we were in Georgia preparing for our daughter's wedding.…

Heading to the Wedding!

Published on November 10, 2015

This issue will be slightly abbreviated. We’ll be back on schedule next week. This weekend is…

Finally on Our (Working) Vacation!

Published on November 5, 2015

This issue will be slightly abbreviated. We finally arrived in Tennessee and, while we’re still working,…

And, Another Trip to Urgent Care

Published on October 29, 2015

closest urgent care center when a minor accident occurs. However, you can't count on them to stop having those accidents when they become adults...…

Two Weeks Until We Find Fall Foliage!

Published on October 21, 2015

It's been a pretty stressful year and we're looking forward to the post-wedding lull. Boredom is GOOD!…

I’m Sick. And, Now My Pants Don’t Fit!

Published on October 14, 2015

I woke up yesterday morning feeling like I'd been inhaling sand. My head hurt, I was coughing, and running a fever, and I couldn't shake the chills. Not pleasant. I didn't want to get up but I had so much work to do. I got dressed, brushed my teeth, threw my hair into a ponytail, and crawled back into bed with my laptop ...…

I Can’t Tell You What I Did Last Weekend!

Published on October 8, 2015

Last Friday, Ali, Mary and I hit the road. Our destination? Savannah, Georgia for Ali's bachelorette party...…

Bachelorette Party Weekend! Whoop! WARNING – PICTURES BELOW MAY BE OFFENSIVE TO SOME!

Published on September 30, 2015

I am leaving early Friday with our daughter, Ali (the bride-to-be), and our future daughter-in-law, Mary. We are meeting several other friends and family members in Savannah, Georgia for a fun-filled bachelorette weekend party! Now, it's not what you think ...…

Pre-Wedding Trip to Georgia!

Published on September 23, 2015

We had a fantastic time in Georgia over the weekend! We attended a couple's shower for our daughter and future son-in-law, Justin, on Saturday, and a bridal shower on Sunday. Well, my mom and I attended the bridal shower. No boys allowed! …

R.I.P. Cool the Bearded Dragon

Published on September 16, 2015

About eight years ago, the boys convinced me to buy them a bearded dragon. Over the years, they have enjoyed his company...and particularly enjoyed scaring the grandmothers with him!…

Pre-wedding Events!

Published on September 9, 2015

Our daughter is a professional pastry chef! Who wants her homemade dinner roll recipe before Thanksgiving?!?! They are PERFECT for leftover turkey sandwiches!! …

Tropical Storm Erika? Pffftt!!!

Published on September 1, 2015

Last weekend was our future son-in-law's bachelor party in Key West. Of course, Tropical Storm Erika wanted to attend...and not in a fun way.…

Brand New AC Still Not Working After One Week!

Published on August 25, 2015

For the past week, we've been staying at our daughter's house. The AC guys installed a brand new unit, but the house wouldn't get below 80 during the day and it was very humid inside. I suspected something was wrong with the unit or installation. I texted the technician that night and he called me right away, which was nice. He said they'd had a problem with the intake attachment. Sure enough, the next morning they found it had ...…

It’s (pant, pant) Stifling in Here!

Published on August 18, 2015

We've known for the past few months that our air conditioner was on its last leg. The previous owners of our home built parts of it without permits, lied about many things (like the age of the roof and past termite problems, to name just a few), and didn't mention defects they obviously knew about. Somebody even removed the tag from the air conditioner that had the serial number, which would indicate date of manufacture. They told us it was pretty new but we later learned it was 11 to 15 years old ...…

Two Wedding Dresses

Published on August 12, 2015

Our daughter is getting married later this year. We bought her wedding dress about a year ago. Last weekend, we went shopping for another wedding dress - one that is dance-friendly ...…

14 Straight Days of Rain…

Published on August 5, 2015

This time of year in Florida, rain is nice because you get a brief reprieve from the heat. But, as of Monday, we'd had 14 straight days of storms. That morning, we woke up at 6:30 a.m. to what sounded like Armageddon outside.…

How To Make Friends…

Published on July 29, 2015

Since moving here, I've missed having parties. We were talking one night, and realized we'd lived in this house for more than two years and we only had two close family friends in this area.…

CSI Camp! Cool!!

Published on July 22, 2015

Remember when you were a kid and summer camp meant canoeing, campfires with marshmallows, and raiding other cabins after dark? Well, no more! This summer, Max attended underwater robotics camp. Mason has attended dinosaur camp, fishing camp (they didn't catch anything but he made some beautiful fish crafts, and learned about tides and such), and, his absolute favorite, CSI camp!…